It seems as if he is only happy if I am down. The minute he sees me happy it seems as if he gets angry. Why I wonder? I have tried everything from being extra nice, to finally just getting irritated (and depressed-- which finally makes him happy), to eventually just avoiding him. It is really driving a wedge between us and making me feel like dying.
He knows how I feel, I have told him a million times. My kids are already starting to notice, and they are getting really upset with him. What can I do?
Asked by Anonymous at 2:01 PM on May. 24, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by louise2 at 2:07 PM on May. 24, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:08 PM on May. 24, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on May. 24, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:14 PM on May. 24, 2010
He's probably just insecure..My hubby was kind of like that; when I was depressed he would tell me cheer up, exercise etc.. Then I would finally start to feel better, be happy, lose weight and gain confidence then he would start saying what are you looking for someone better now and your going to cheat or leave. and blah blah.. Vicious cycle!
Answer by kjfamily at 2:17 PM on May. 24, 2010