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I like to read erotic books and then...TMI

take an erotic bath, then you know.....

The problem is. I like it better than sex with my DH. He is starting to notice that all I do is reject him now. He has no idea what I do during bathtime! How should I address this issue? I just can't help it!

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:06 PM on May. 24, 2010 in Relationships

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  • "How should I address this issue? I just can't help it!"

    Have sex with your husband...Poor Guy! If you are not reaching orgasms while having sex with your dh, then buy some fun toys to share during sex and it will be easier.
    SleepingBeautee

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 10:09 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • Who has time to read?
    BlooBird

    Answer by BlooBird at 10:09 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • Introduce one of your books as a fun new game...read a steamy scene to him, or have him read to you. Suggest you should take a bath together while you read :)
    StellarJKD

    Answer by StellarJKD at 10:10 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • invite him into the tub with you, then y'all can both do each other.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:10 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • read together, that is!! Not just take a bath together while you alone read :P
    StellarJKD

    Answer by StellarJKD at 10:10 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • Yeah... invite him in!!! ;o)
    Morgain

    Answer by Morgain at 10:13 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • I went through my entire second marriage doing that. I didn't find it to be a problem. I was better at pleasing myself than he was anyway
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:32 PM on May. 24, 2010

  • I think you should just tell your husband that you prefer spanking the monkey to sex with him and let him decide how he feels about that.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:42 AM on May. 25, 2010

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