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How would you handle this....

A friend who uses you most of the time. But does do for you occasionally. Have had the friend for 10 years. Well 2 years ago, I invited her along out for my birthday with some friend she hasn't met. They all hit it off, as expected. Well now I haven't spoke to the friend in 6 months. Last time was when she invited me out, come to find out, only so I could buy all her drinks for the night cause she was broke. So I haven't tried calling her. Well I see her on facebook making plans with my friends, that she met through me. Never invites me, or even trys talking to me. I know she looooooves getting to me, in some sick way.

Well would you say something? Or just ignore it and move on and not let it bother you?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:58 PM on May. 25, 2010 in Entertainment

Answers (5)
  • unfriend her on FB so you won't even know about it

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 2:58 PM on May. 25, 2010

  • Then she'll know I'm pissed, and shes the type to tell all my secrets just to hurt me. I feel like I can't burn any bridges.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:01 PM on May. 25, 2010

  • I would ignore it. Honestly, hate to break it to you, but it doesn't sound like she's a friend. I would NOT go out of my way to hang out with her, and if she asked me, I'd say I was busy and then post on FB how I went out with my other friends. :)

    Answer by LovingSAHMommy at 3:03 PM on May. 25, 2010

  • crud..I hate when that happens..The best revenge is to have a good time without her. When you have fun with all of her friends, it will get under her skin here's an example:

    One of her friends says, " I went out with OP the other day...she's awsome! What a riot...I can't wait to chill with her again..." it will burn her up. Let her be a heiffer.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:16 PM on May. 25, 2010

  • Ignore her. Delete her off your FB page and any other social networking site you have her on, and move on. She's a user and doesn't care about your friendship, just what you can do for her. She's not worth your time.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 3:42 PM on May. 25, 2010

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