why i need to adopt is because in my house my parents and i are christian so i got pregnant out of wed luck they have all turn their backs on me and this is hurting me a lot i don't, know what to do and to commit abortion is an act punishable by the law so i can not do it because it is also a sin before GOD i just want to give birth to the child and adopt so i need someone that can adopt my baby.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:06 AM on May. 26, 2010 in Adoption
Answer by VeronicaLee at 7:10 AM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by Ellie15 at 7:54 AM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by AshleyBDG at 8:13 AM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by ceejay1 at 9:51 AM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by ramajil at 10:46 AM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by doodlebopfan at 11:33 AM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by doodlebopfan at 11:43 AM on May. 26, 2010
Your family are hypocrites not Christians. They'd rather give their own grandchild to strangers than support you. They'd rather subject you to a lifetime of loss and grief than have their daughter be a single mother. That's not the actions of Christians. Have you exhausted All avenues of support? What about the fathers family? Would they be willing to help you? Aunts and Uncles? You'd be surprised who comes out of the woodwork saying after the fact "I'd have helped you if I'd had known you'd wanted to keep him".
Answer by onethentwins at 12:53 PM on May. 26, 2010
Hi,This was my family 33 yrs ago.The thing that comes to mind about your christian concerns is that if you are remorseful and believe you are forgiven.If you believe sex outside of marriage is wrong then from now on be celibate till marriage .That would be acting on remorse. Spending the rest of your life in stunning amazing pain has nothing to do with Christianity or being remorseful. ..I sit on the board of my Methodist church and teach confirmation classes.I have told a couple of my ministers about my loss and they don't equate being christian with having to put an "out of wedlock" child up for adoption.They may think there are reasons but this isn't one of them.Re read ceejay,ramajil &dbf answers they are giving you excellent advice.
Answer by drfink at 1:09 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by drfink at 1:11 PM on May. 26, 2010