So if I was to say I knew that my sister was having a planned c-section that I knew she could not change on a certain day ...and I then changed my wedding day to that day and almost the same exact time she was having the c-section....Would that make my sister selfish and immature that she got upset over that ( keep in mind "my" wedding is a court house wedding ( my 3rd marriage), and that we sent out no invites, we just called to tell people to be there) ...
I am actually the pregnant sister, and I am dealing with my sister who changed her wedding to my "due date" ... I just dont understand why I would be the "bad sister" and be a horrible daughter ( expecting my mom to still be at the hospital ) ....
I am mad and hormonal...is why I am asking ...
Asked by Anonymous at 12:49 PM on May. 26, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by kimigogo at 12:54 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by ria7 at 12:55 PM on May. 26, 2010
Be angry if you want but it won't change anything and it will just upset the baby. Is she worth that? If this is her third marriage then why would she expect people to attend? I had three and didn't expect anyone to go by my third time! Life and relationships is about compromise. Have mom be with you for the c section then while you are sleeping she can attend the reception or dinner or whatever to celebrate sis's nuptials. Find the good...at least this way you don't have to buy a wedding gift! Ok, all joking aside. I think what your sister did was a juvenile attempt to get attention on her instead of you. That was silly if you ask me but we can't change other people but we can change how we react to their behavior. Don't let her bad behavior detract from you bringing a precious new life into the world.
Answer by admckenzie at 1:01 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:03 PM on May. 26, 2010