Me and my SO have a 7 mo. old. Ive done 99% of everything since she was born, even threw surgery and serious illness..SO sits outside either alone or with his friends all day and gets mad if I ask for help..Today, i had to run to the store and asked him to watch her for a few minutes..He WAS taking a nap and said he cant and when I started raising my voice slightly about how he woke me up from my nap today he called me a "nasty a**"..If I'm so nasty, why was he trying to get some last night?! Oh wait, EVERYNIGHT!!
He wanted this baby..he purposely got me pregnant and we had this whole plan when i was pregnant..Nothing stuck..
My question is, how do I get it threw to him? How do I get his help? Im tired of feeling like a single mom because if Im going to do everything by myself, I want to be alone..This is the last chance for him so if anyone can give me some good ideas on how to get him to help that would be appreciated.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:02 PM on May. 26, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 9:07 PM on May. 26, 2010
My husband barely helped when the kids were infants BUT he made alot of money and I was SAHM so I just dealt with it..If he is just sitting around all day that you should give him an ultimatum, either get a job making good money or help out 50/50 or you will gone!
Answer by kjfamily at 9:10 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by figaro8895 at 9:14 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by DomoniqueWS at 9:16 PM on May. 26, 2010
i couldn't have said it better :)
Answer by bestmommyeber at 9:16 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 9:18 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by ManicMomma02 at 9:35 PM on May. 26, 2010
Answer by ambr2006 at 9:36 PM on May. 26, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:00 PM on May. 26, 2010