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how can i keep from getting so upset with my SO?

he works hard, as the manager ofa subway rest. and i know that his brain gets tired and that somedays he is going to be ill and whatnot, but its just like lately he has his brain on everything BUT me. he is having a rough time at work, he got written up bc he had been lacking off and some money was missing that he couldnt track down and had to pay it back so we are tight on mone right now. and its like all he wants to do is work, come home and either go off to his buddies or lay back in the couch and ignore us for the most part, he talks etc but no real interaction. and ever off day he runs to play ball or hang out, or he will bring a friend home (without warning) to play video games. im horny but cant get past the frustration right now and we havent had good sex in over a month. and when we do he's never concerned with my pleasure. he HATES talking so that doesnt help, only starts arguments, what can do to help us both?


Asked by Anonymous at 9:41 PM on May. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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  • guys dont talk. if you want something, take it-- not THAT forcefully, but enough to make him understand what you want... which means, go to him with his shirt on and nothing else and jump on him!

    as for talking- guys do NOT talk. its just a fact. if you wanna talk to/with him, engage in whatever he's doing.. play the video game with him and ask him about whatever. some guys dont have the one track mind- they can still think while they play video games... and also- the type of games they play, it relieves some anger/frustration, so he might not mean to ignore you- he might just be so pissed off at himself/whoever for the situation you guys are in, and is trying to release that energy. anyways- guys need something to do with their hands while they talk.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:34 AM on May. 27, 2010

  • Send him a text "I need sex now damit and the good kind"... Sometimes you need to make it plain for a man.

    Answer by mmmegan38 at 10:04 PM on May. 26, 2010

  • speak guy talk to him. they do not really care about emotions. Just flat out tell him what you want.

    Answer by SuzanneL09 at 11:05 PM on May. 26, 2010