Okay, well a few months ago my ex flew to my location. He said he was about to get deployed & that he really wanted his new fiancee to meet our daughter before he left, because it would be 1 1/2 years before he could come visit her again. Out of the week he was here, he made 45 minutes for our daughter. The time he was here, he was really too busy whispering back & forth with his fiancee, & my daughter didn't really pay attention to any of them. Ex didn't try and socialize w my daughter.
I just got a text saying he's coming in this weekend and that he wants to see my daughter again. I said okay, well it'll have to be Saturday because I have plans Sunday. I said come solo. The last visitation did not go well and Im simply not comfortable w having that new chick in my home.
Our daughter is 11 mo old. I have sole physical & legal custody, and the ex never calls or emails about her. Hes seen her 3 times in the last yr.
Asked by Anonymous at 2:33 AM on May. 27, 2010 in General Parenting
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I completely agree with you. Your daughter doesn't need people bopping in and out of her life like that. She's not a zoo animal or a museumexhibit. She deserves stability and respect, as do you. He has no business bringing his girlfriend/fiance to you house and invading your space. If he really wants her there, you can meet them at a park or other public place. Maybe bring a friend or SO with you so that you don't have to deal with them alone.
If he's really being deployed, you might want to take a few pictures of your daughter with him so that she'll have them later if he doesn't make it back home.
Good luck with everything!
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