My sister has a son who will be 2 in July. My sister has a boyfriend who has been in her son's life since she was 2 months old (not the father), but he calls him daddy cause that is all he has ever knowen as daddy. She has knowen this guy since before the baby was born though. The real father kicked my sister out when she was about 4 months pregnant and said the baby wasn't his. She went down when the baby was about 5 or 6 months old for a DNA on her and the baby and he was supose to go but didn't show up. He hasn't paid child suport he has never seen the baby only pictures he wrote my sister on myspace a coupple weeks ago wanting to see my nephew. She told him her boyfriend would probably want to fight him so then he said never mind he didn't want to see his son. Should my sister let him see him anyway?
Asked by Anonymous at 4:15 PM on May. 27, 2010 in About CafeMom
Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 8:37 AM on May. 28, 2010
Answer by forevermom75 at 4:22 PM on May. 27, 2010
Answer by TimandMely4ever at 4:22 PM on May. 27, 2010
He can file for custody and support from her! Telling him she would have someone fight him was stupid. He could use that against her. She could loose her baby. If she is living with this guy that would go against her also. If that child is his he should be able to see his child.
She needs to file for custody and support. She needs to get married or get the guy out of where she lives. She needs to get a job if she doesn't have one if she doesn't get married and the guy can't support them.
For custody and visitation it doesn't matter what the father did to the mother in the past even if she was pregnant.
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