We were TTC and were so happy when we had a positive test. Sadly a few days after we started having complications which ultimately resulted in finding we had an ectopic pregnancy. Our baby had already died and my tube had ruptured. My abdomen filled with blood and the doctor did emergency surgery to remove my right tube. It has been a month and a half and not that I am sure about anything but I am not wanting to use any BC any more and we don't want to use condoms. Right now we are just pulling out. I am acknowledging that this may not prevent a pregnancy. So I am looking at it that maybe we should just go ahead and let what happens happen. DH doesn't mind pulling out but says he doesn't want to feel like "we're trying" because he's not sure he's ready. I respect that but I also feel that if we do become pregnant I would just prefer we are actually expecting or want to become pregnant. Not just it happened and that's ok...Answer Question
Not using birth control is a constant emotional roller coster. It is better for your stress levels and for your marriage stress if you use birth control and plan births. You could use a diaphram, cervical cap, or sponge if you don't want to use hormones.
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