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Is there anything you would like to change about you or your children's lives?

This is just a hypothetical question. I know we are all guilty of something that we could change about our lives.


Asked by amessageofhope at 12:55 AM on May. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i'd buy a house. i hate having to move her and ourselves around every year.

    Answer by jennifer588 at 1:39 AM on May. 30, 2010

  • I will even begin this one. If I could go back and change something, I would like to change my relationship with my daughter. When her father left us, it really hurt us both emotionally. I feel that I wasn't really there for her. When I got into another relationship, he treated us so bad, he hit her and I didn't see it happen. My three children and I went through a lot emotionally and I can never forgive myself for that. I think this is a reason that my middle child doesn't do well in school. But, shoulda, coulda, wouldas don't get us anywhere.

    Answer by amessageofhope at 1:00 AM on May. 30, 2010

  • No, nothing. I fell in love with an amazing man and I couldn't possibly feel more loved by him and we have two wonderful kids together. We are the family-type, not the career type family and we spend so much time together with the kids and we often go on trips just the 2 of us while the kids are with their grandparents. I love my life!

    Answer by pipermomofash at 1:01 AM on May. 30, 2010

  • I wouldn't have yelled so much if I could have actually heard myself.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:16 AM on May. 30, 2010

  • OP you nailed it-the could should wouldas will destroy your soul. i refuse to sit and "regret" things i cannot change. what I would rather spend my time thinking about it what can I do NOW to make their ives the best they can be. :)

    Answer by Bearsjen at 3:16 AM on May. 30, 2010

  • More money would be nice. I could give them more, but it's not like they do without or anything.

    Answer by lowencope at 11:13 AM on May. 30, 2010