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What would you do?

A good friend of mine came to me recently and said that her husband was over at a friends the other night and was gone for a long time, which is not unusual for him, but then a couple of days later a mutual friend of ours told her that there where some girls over and one of them gave her hubby a bj then they went into the bathroom together. He denies it but he has lied to her before and the friend that siad something never has and the story was backed by someone else. There was also another issue a while back, a friend and his gf broke up then he found out she had a baby later that year so he took a dna test and it wasn't his well her hubby was down there a lot while she was there but left as soon as the guy came home. She had just had a baby so she was at home recovering. I don't know what to tell her any suggestions would be helpful.


Asked by countrygirl06 at 2:25 PM on May. 30, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (5)
  • Some females will never listen to reason even if you talk their ear off as a friend. they may look like they are listening but unless they truly dont want to deal with that, they are not going to leave. All you can do is be there for them. And when they are ready they will do what is right. well hopefully.

    Answer by bellamommyof4 at 2:33 PM on May. 30, 2010

  • Well I would tell her point blank she has a choice to make right here right now. Either she stays with him and never has kids with him (hopefully they dont already)..... or she leaves him now and starts a new life with people she can respect and trust.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on May. 30, 2010

  • He sounds like a jerk. If you think he is the father of someone else's child tell the mom to get a dna test with him and then your friend will know what a real jerk he is.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:29 PM on May. 30, 2010

  • UD... It was never actually proven wether he did or not and as for the second one he was never tested. And yes they have kids.

    Answer by countrygirl06 at 2:30 PM on May. 30, 2010

  • UD... Our mutual friend ( the guy thats was her bf at the time) is making the baby's mom do another test and this time test all the guys that were around at that time so we'll find out in a few months after hes done with school and then we'll go from there. Thank you for your advise !!

    Answer by countrygirl06 at 3:00 PM on Jun. 2, 2010