i really hate having company over, even family for more than just a few minutes. i guess i never had a lot of ppl in my house and i dont like entertaining his friends! m house is small and we dont have cable just internet and movies/game systems so we all haveto sit in the same room, and i just hate hanging around is friends, some of them are idiots lol. but it only ticks me off when he come home from work and unexpectedly has a friend in the car, asking me if i can get dressed so that so-and-so can come in. he will not even call most times to tell me that someone is coming over. it is annoying because i sit around in underwear in my house, and what if i open the door with nothing on only to find a friend behind him? how do you handle having company?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on May. 31, 2010 in Just for Fun
Answer by wildflowers25 at 3:58 PM on May. 31, 2010
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Answer by Orionsgirl at 3:59 PM on May. 31, 2010
Answer by Apple_Pie2010 at 4:47 PM on May. 31, 2010
I think you have two issues going on here....
1) you two have a different opinion on having guests over. Perhaps you could find some middle ground. Instead of having them over on random days, have him pick 2-3 times a month and plan it. That way you can be prepared and can get your self mentally ready to have the guests over.
2) He is being rude to you by surprising you with these guests. Im going to guess that he is doing it this way because you refuse to have people over. Perhaps if you plan it out and give into him a bit, he will in turn give in to you by not surpising you with guests.
Answer by Anonymous at 5:20 PM on May. 31, 2010
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Answer by coala at 6:00 PM on May. 31, 2010
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