my SO always claims to be tired or to have something on his mind everytime i try to come on to him. anything short of me dropping to my knees, he doesnt want to do. if i want sex i literally have to strong arm him and try to coax it out of him. if he wants sex, he simply bends me over! no romance about it, no enthusiasm, no foreplay, and then i dont want to MAKE him do foreplay because he isnt into it. i find myself wanting sex less and less from him, seeing how we only have sex 10 minutes a week, and we are still in out 20s. i am at a loss as to what to do, i have told him that i want good sex, and foreplay and it doesnt do anything. i also dont want to have to jump his bones everytime either, is he just uninterested or what? i am lost!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:50 PM on May. 31, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Adeline1210 at 10:54 PM on May. 31, 2010
I have been thought that and the problem wasn't me, it was my husband. He was really stressed about the responsibilities he had on him. I felt the way you did, I even thought about leaving him or cheating. It took five years for things to get better. Now its my husband wanting it and it's me not wanting to. My excuse is I have end stage renal disease. His wasn't really that great of am excuse.
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