I have a 20 year old son, who use to be a fun, popular, person who loved his family and community, he joined the Air Force, he is a fireman, an EMT... and now he is engaged to a HORRIBLE girl. She is 25, no job, talks down to my son, spends all of his money ( she spent his $10,000 he got from joining the AF in 1 MONTH !), she holds his keys and wallet and has to ASK her before he can go anywhere.
We ( me and my DH) thought if we let her move in too, that my son would see how she is and want to leave her and cancel the wedding. Well one day I found an ovulation pack and when i asked my son about it he got upset ( with her--he doesnt want kids until after they are married and he finished his oversees tour) Well they moved the wedding date back, but are still together. * Not to forget that she has told me and my husband that since we made our son move the date back we have to pay for it all *
Asked by Anonymous at 11:03 AM on Jun. 1, 2010 in Just for Fun
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:15 AM on Jun. 1, 2010
I have 3 sons, ages 30, 27 and 22. Your son has a job, there is NO REASON he and his girlfriend should be living with you. Give them a week to find another place to live. Tell your son he is welcome to stay but she is out in one week. He may be upset but if he is as great as you say he is, it won't last.
It's not your responsibility to pay for the wedding. Her family can pay for it or they can pay for it. You can get married for $100 and be just as married.
Don't walk on egg shells because you are afraid she will take him away. Hope he sees her for what she is before any kids are involed. Hope you raised him to be smart enough to not ruin his life.
Answer by Gailll at 11:18 AM on Jun. 1, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 11:40 AM on Jun. 1, 2010
Hey momma first (((HUGS))) she only pushes him around because she feels she can talking about her to him at this stage will only push them closer together. I would talk to them about marital counseling before they get married . Saying something will . I would start recording or buy a cam corder hide it and start to tape what she is doing. My son was dating a girl who was crazy she would text him or call him 100 times a day and if he did not answer she would text me and call me I would be at work or in class and she would go all day after we had proof it made him step back on his own terms now he has a nice girl. You can only cross your fingers. GL Momma
Answer by pinkdragon36 at 12:15 PM on Jun. 1, 2010