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Would you marry your husband again if you could live your life over?

Hi: I've been thinking a lot about my marriage of almost 12 years lately; it's not been very happy lately. My husband lost another job, I work full time and do most of the house work. We have a 9 year old son. My husband is a great father. Not sure if I still have feelings for him & not sure I would have married him if I make that choice again. We'll still stay together, though, for our son. If you could live your live over, would you have married your husband? Thanks

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:13 PM on Jun. 1, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • Yes I would definetly! We have went throught some hard stuff but I love him with all my heart! I am so happy and thankful that he is my husband! He is amazing.


    Answer by Brandi300 at 8:16 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • not at the point in time that i did. I would have waited a couple of years

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:20 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • i dont think so if i know how my life would be i would just get a job and do it all alone i have no support from my husband other than he lets me live with him and pays the bills and is a great dad to our kids i feel like working would be hard but it beats the nagging and stupid comments guys give like they know it all! if i ever divorced i would not re marry!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:21 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • yes, because like garth brooks said in the song The Dance, "life is better left to chance, I could have missed the pain, but i'd a had to miss the dance"

    Answer by TaiM at 8:24 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • Yes, without a doubt!

    Answer by older at 8:26 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • Right now, at this point in my life...I'm sooo happy! I've had a wonderful day! (just thought I'd share lol) And guess what? None of it was because of him. It never is, if I had a bad day, he's usually the culprit. We've had ups and downs like many couples do, but there's been too many downs, besides the kids he gave me. I feel like if he left tomorrow, I'd be relieved. So no I would not marry him again.

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:31 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • Which one? I've had quite few! Ok, joking aside - no. I never wanted to get married. It is just not my thing. My parents kept making me get married. I wouldn't do it again for anything.

    Answer by admckenzie at 8:51 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • I absolutely would!! I have often joked that I want to get married again - but I wanted to marry the same guy. I just want another wedding!

    Answer by RutterMama at 9:08 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • Yes I would.. But if I relived my life, there is so much I would change before our relationship began, so that could change things & we may have never started dating in the first place..

    Answer by MommaTasha1003 at 9:10 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

  • Honestly? Probably not. I would have waited so that when he did lie and break my trust, I could have left this relationship easily. I'd still have my son, I just wouldn't be in so much emotional pain. Don't get me wrong, I love him dearly and we're doing our best to work stuff out, but its just not the same now. =[

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:12 PM on Jun. 1, 2010

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