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I have been with my hubby since i was 15........

and i haven't given one BJ? he doesn't complain but should i do more?

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:27 PM on Jun. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • if he's not complaining then whats the problem ?? i dont get it ..

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:29 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • whatever works for your marriage
    I have never given DH one and never will, and he knew that going in

    Answer by peanutsmommy1 at 2:29 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • OMG thats my husbands favorite lol I dont think we would have survived if he didnt get that

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:41 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • I don't think you *should* do it, it's not a duty or anything.
    But if you're willing then why not try it as a surprise once, and see if he likes it (he will!), and if you're ok with it then you could do it more often, and if you hate it then you can tell him.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:45 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • if you want to try it then go for it. if you don't then don't, its not a requirement. don't compare your relationship with others, if you and he are happy then that is what matters.

    Answer by TaiM at 2:50 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • That's up to your husband. If he doesn't care then you shouldn't care.
    If he asks for one then you decide if you want to give him one.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 3:56 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

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