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How long was it until you married your DH?

And how long had it been since your last relationship? How long have you guys been together?

I knew my DH for only a couple months... lol. :] And my last relationship had been about a year ago. We've been together almost 4 years.

The reason why I ask, curiousity aside, is that my BIL is bitching and cursing his ex-gf. He's wondering HOW she could've said she loved him just 10 months ago (he actually got it down to the day... which was kind of pathetic), and be married now. Well, it's actually very easy... he was abusive towards her, but aside from that, it brought me to ask you ladies.
I'm not judging or anything! :D

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ManicMomma02

Asked by ManicMomma02 at 7:49 PM on Jun. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I married my husband 7 months after we met... I was 18 at the time. I had only had 1 serious relationship before that which ended 8 months before I met him. He had also only had 1 serious relationship, they broke up about a year before we met . We have been married 6 years now,

    laciD

    Answer by laciD at 7:52 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • I knew my DH about 5 or 6 years before we were married. I never wanted to marry or have kids until i met him, now here I am 2 years married and a beautiful 15mo son and so happy.
    PotterMom218

    Answer by PotterMom218 at 7:53 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • We married 5 years after we met, but we knew after 2 weeks that we were madly in love and would marry =) We just had to get our ducks in a row first. We'll be married 7 years this summer.
    gramsmom

    Answer by gramsmom at 7:56 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • i have been with my dh since i was 16, we got married 2 years ago! feb 14 2008, and by nov 4 2008 we had out dd
    mommylisar

    Answer by mommylisar at 8:03 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • We married 3 mos. after we met - I know : fast :)

    We have now been married 10 yrs. and are just growing stronger and more in love :)

    My last (serious) relationship, before DH, was 5 yrs. earlier.
    Nynne

    Answer by Nynne at 8:06 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • One year three months. We've been together 6 and half years. We've been Married for 5 and half.
    lowencope

    Answer by lowencope at 8:15 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • Together 5 years before getting married. Been together a total of 6 almost 7 years.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • We met in March of '99,and married in December of "99. We've been married almost 11 yrs. Before him I dated a guy for a few months that same year. I didn't love THAT guy.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 8:22 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • 1st: together for 1.5 years then married for almost 2
    6 year gap
    BF: dated for 2 years
    1 week gap
    2nd: together for 4 then married for almost 4
    current: together for 3 months but BFF for 8 years, not married yet but have talked about it have known each other for 15 years
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 8:23 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

  • My husband and I had been dating for about a year before we got married. Something like a year and 3 months.
    I hadn't been serious about anyone for a year when we started dating. I dated someone a couple of months before my husband, but I didn't have feelings for him.
    We've been together 14 years this month, and will celebrate our 13th wedding anniversary on September 6th.
    JulieJacobKyle

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 8:27 PM on Jun. 2, 2010

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