Im completely ready SO goes back and forth saying he is and isnt.
Should i ask for a time frame of when he will be ready? or is this to pushy?and what if he gives me a time frame that im not satisfied with like a few years?!! i dont want our children far apart. i also have an IUD so it would need to be taken out i just feel so lost with this! and feel like something is seriously missing from our family like there is a hole that needs to be filled. We are happy together so its not like im saying we are unhappy and i want a child to try and fix our relationship its not like that at all! we are happy, financially we are able to we plan on moving in a few months to a bigger place (we have spoken about this in the past and want to move to be able to expand our family. so i dont understand y he is reluctant to do this when we have spoken about it in the past.? i think i just need advice from others who have been in this position..
I would start with you. Ask yourself WHY you want another baby? If its for reason that aren't say good, then you might want to rethink you wanting a baby so soon.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:41 AM on Jun. 3, 2010
Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 3:44 AM on Jun. 3, 2010
That's all sound like lovely reasons. Have you asked your DH why he keeps changing his mind? Maybe it can be fixed.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 3:54 AM on Jun. 3, 2010
Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 3:57 AM on Jun. 3, 2010
I wouldn't ask for a time frame just yet, cuz with him not wanting to at this time... it will just add more stress on him. I would ask him why not yet and if he insists on telling you not yet every time you ask, then tell it not yet is not good enough response. Say, we talked about this in the pass and you and I both agreed on trying for another baby when our daughter is 1. Then proceed to say, Honey! are you gonna back on your word? and if so, how do you think that makes you look to me? Then tell him, after you already agreed to our plan I have a right to now why not yet.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 4:07 AM on Jun. 3, 2010
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Answer by MomNbabyGirl009 at 4:12 AM on Jun. 3, 2010
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