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if you and your husband got into a an argument or fight who makes up first


Asked by Anonymous at 3:55 PM on Jun. 3, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (8)
  • It depends on who started it, but usually him. I hold a grudge much longer.

    Answer by Austinsmom35 at 5:16 PM on Jun. 4, 2010

  • Depends on who is in the wrong. Most generally, him :)


    Answer by hdb at 3:56 PM on Jun. 3, 2010

  • He does, because i'm usually right. If i'm not right....then I will.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:56 PM on Jun. 3, 2010

  • He will hold a grudge forever.................LOL So usually me!

    Answer by TheDiva320 at 3:57 PM on Jun. 3, 2010

  • After 17 yrs we have a sort of unspoken way of doing things. If we have a disagreement, I make sure to get my WHOLE point across..... then I allow him to go on and on and have the last word. I walk away. I usually am the one to "make up" first. He will think about my point of view and 99.9% of the time come back and either agree with me, compromise with me, or apologize. He NEEDS to have the last word... he really can not stand not to. So, as long as my point has been made, I allow him that. He ALWAYS considers my side of things.

    It was a hard thing to learn.... learning how to successfully disagree.... but we have and we have a nice solid marriage. Everyone has a different dance... but the sooner you learn the steps the sooner the arguing demishises.


    Answer by Anonymous at 4:00 PM on Jun. 3, 2010

  • Usually him.

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 4:25 PM on Jun. 3, 2010

  • 98% of the time he makes up with me................... he says he doesnt like it when i dont talk to him! lol and theres times that he will say i talk too much! lol..............

    Answer by gonzalez3 at 4:58 PM on Jun. 3, 2010

  • With my STBX, it was mostly me. He would once in a while.

    Answer by rio_burb at 10:21 AM on Jun. 4, 2010