(refering to my other question: 3.5yr old beating herself up over not being a good writer!! ?? )
I am not pushy at all with my daughter, Im not a flashcards mom, we dont sit & do preschool. Learning is only in a fun way, and its 99% her asking for things. We buy education stuff yes, but its there for HER to show interest in.. She has plenty of other stuff to play with as well
This last week she said "look mom a B".. And she had a B wrote on her paper, I said "very good!" Shes became interested in writing. For the last 2 days unless she is doing something active or doing something with me, her next interested is trying to write..
She gets very frustrated with herself. It is normal for her personality to do this & get upset over what she cant do. (been told i was the same).
Am I wrong for letting her write? Should I really distract her to do something else?!
Asked by Anonymous at 12:22 AM on Jun. 5, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by Bellarose0212 at 12:35 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
(other post if you want to read why im so confused / upset)
Answer by Anonymous at 12:22 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:25 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:29 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
I would let her write especially if she is intrested in doing so, if she starts beating herself up about something just talk to her calmly and say it's ok ______ your doing just fine, nobody writes perfect when they first start writing, etc. etc. just talk her through it and don't change her focus from learing to coloring or other stuff just work with her, she wouldn't want to write if she wasn't ready.
Answer by looovemybabies at 12:35 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
Answer by Adelicious at 12:36 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 12:41 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
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Answer by 3_ring_circus_ at 1:00 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
Answer by LavenderRose10 at 2:51 AM on Jun. 5, 2010
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