Ok to make a long story short I have been married now nine years I have two girls with my husband and one on the way. I a few months ago came across my first love the guy I dated for a long time and we got ripped apart with no toher choice because I was not 18 and my mom moved out of the state where he lived and I was forced to go. And it tore me up inside I have never stopped thinking about him always searching for him online looking at his pics ect. Well we just starting talking again I realized I still love him. Am I selfish for this. I am being told I have to let him go and not break my vow but dont I deserve to see if he is the one I am supposed to be with? I have not been happy for the last two years or so in my marrriage I think i just got married too young becausw the fact that I would cheat on my husband with this man scares me. I just need some advice. I have not cheated on my husband. Thanks
Asked by Anonymous at 7:35 PM on Jun. 5, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 7:54 PM on Jun. 5, 2010
Please watch this short video before you even contact your ex again.
Answer by ThrivingMom at 7:57 PM on Jun. 5, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 8:05 PM on Jun. 5, 2010
Well, that is a good question. I am older I guess (43) and I wish I had an answer for you. I think a lot of women feel this way but few act upon it. They say you never realize what you have until you lose it. I know a Man that I worked with for many years. He was divorced a few years & went to his HS reunion. He saw an old girlfriend who was married. Well they had something really special in HS but parted ways for some reason. She ended up divorcing her DH (one child) and marrying the man I worked with. They moved in together and I even went to their Wedding. 5 years later they were divorced and they are more miserable now than before they re-met. The grass seems always greener on the other side until you get there. Be very careful, you are risking your childrens happiness as well.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:06 PM on Jun. 5, 2010