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Spice up our sex life idea's please

it feels like its the same thing over and over, we both want to try new things.. we do foreplay but what are some different ideas to make it better what really turns you on that ur dh does for u?
what are some ideas on what to say to him to sound sexy and drive him crazy

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:17 AM on Jun. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • role playing! Communicate with him and talk with each other about your inner-most fantasies, communication is key!

    Answer by truthteller0722 at 2:19 AM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • watch a porn together and try to copy what they do.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:27 AM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • When my husband and I first got together, we would "go shopping" on sites like Adam and Eve and talk about what we would buy and why. That created some erotic fantasies.
    We've also tried the role-playing thing. My husband wasn't too comfortable with that though.
    We saw this show once where they gave each other massages with cornstarch. We wanted to try it. Sounds weird, but that stuff is SO soft! It made a HUGE mess, but it was so worth it!
    Oh, we bought a fondue pot and melted chocolate. We dipped strawberries and other fruit in it and fed it to each other. Then we gave up on the fruit and started eating chocolate off of each other. That was fun (and messy).
    You could always surprise him in the shower. Come in with one of those bath poofahs and bathe him. That inevitably leads to some fun times.
    Good luck! Don't be afraid to think outside the box!

    Answer by ShaunnaMichelle at 3:14 AM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • there are books out there - 101 nights of great sex i think - that have these little scenarios to help you get creative - there are tear-out pages for men and women - i never used them but they sounded fun. you surprise each other doing different things...

    Answer by figaro8895 at 8:42 AM on Jun. 7, 2010

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