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Where did the fire go?

My husband and I are best friends. We have been together for 11 years and tell each other everything. I have done many things for him to get him aroused including playing along with dirty talk that does absolutely nothing for me. Lately I have not been turned on and he has noticed it. I don't like the dirty talk because of what he likes to hear. When I say I wnat things to be a certain way he complains and tells me that I'm just being selfish and it isn't all about me. Any advice on how to better approach this situation.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:14 PM on Jun. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Telling him what you want isn't selfish, it's clear and honest. And in truth, the thing most men find incredibly arousing is the sight of an aroused partner, it's a darn shame he's missing out on that because he's a mysogynist a-hole.

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:53 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

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