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Why do I always end up marrying a lazy ass?

I mean seriously... He acts just like my first husband. We JUST got into a huge fight about how he sleeps all day.. and guess what he's doing! HE'S F'IN SLEEPING on the couch! God I'm so sick of it.

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 5:22 PM on Jun. 7, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (12)
  • No, he started doing this after we got married without even asking what I thought about it. I knew him my whole life.. but started talking to him online and then started hanging out with him. then we started dated, and a month into our relationship I got pregnant.. I've pretty much stayed with him since then because of our daughter
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:45 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • I got divorced when I was in my early thirties and I have stayed single for over 20 years. I love being single.

    Gailll

    Answer by Gailll at 5:24 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • How about not getting married again. I'm sure he slept all day before you were married. Pour cold water on him.
    SaraP1989

    Answer by SaraP1989 at 5:25 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • Does he go to work? Does he help around the house? Has he changed since before you married him?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:26 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • I'm with Gailll. I figured out what caused all my stress (husbands) and decided to remain single after my last divorce. I'm SOOOO much happier now!
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 5:28 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • He "works" at a bar 3 nights a week playing music... But actually, he's hired someone to do all the work while he goes and plays pool.. No way does he help around the house, he's sleeping all day and watching tv all night.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:39 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • Maybe you are looking for love in all the wrong places. Did you meet him at this bar he works at?
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 5:42 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • I'd leave his lazy ass sleeping on the couch and just go about my life like he wasn't even there. I has a bf like this. I just left the house and did my errands and hung with my friends and let him cook and clean for himself. Thank God my hubby isn't like my bf was!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 6:19 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • then we started dated, and a month into our relationship I got pregnant

    NEVER EVER EVER GET MARRIED BECAUSE YOU'RE PREGNANT!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:04 PM on Jun. 7, 2010

  • He hasnt always been this bad.. when we got married he worked a full time job.. cooked dinner every night. and didn't trash the house. its not like that anymore.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:19 PM on Jun. 7, 2010