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If you know your hubby has a gambling problem and that his dad told me to tell him if he does it again,

what should I say? He asked to get $400 from the mom. She gave him a $400 check.His excuse was parties and lawyer fees for our bankruptcy. What should I tell his dad?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:12 AM on Jun. 8, 2010 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • Tell him the truth. If your husband has a gambling problem, you enable his problem by covering for him. That is codependent behavior and isn't good for either one of you.
    Anna92464

    Answer by Anna92464 at 9:18 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • that his wife gave him 400 bucks
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 9:14 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • The truth.
    oldermomof5

    Answer by oldermomof5 at 9:14 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • Just tell him he blew it on gambling not on lawyer fees and parties right?.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:15 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • There are programs for the family and friends of addicts, Al Anon is for families of alcoholics...there is a number for Gamblers Anonymous. Recovery starts with the first step. Tell the truth. Good luck!
    infantcare08

    Answer by infantcare08 at 9:26 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • The truth works. Never lie for an addict. That's just enabling them
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 10:14 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • Tell him, but ask him to not mention he heard it from you.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:20 AM on Jun. 8, 2010

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