I have never in my whole life had a real desire or even liking for sex. I don't orgasm, unless I use a vibrator on myself. I have tried to please my husband for 5 years and he was very needy. I can't just let him have it whenever he wants and now he's left. We were planning on going to see a therapist for help and to figure out what is wrong with me, but my husband still wanted me to just turn over so he could get off. I am tired of feeling like a piece of meat. I understand he had needs too, that is why we were going to get help.
I know I'm probably not normal. I chalk it up to being molested as a child and my husband's lack of help with the kids. He says "I work and pay all the bills," and that is why he shouldn't have to do anything when he gets home. And why I should give myself to him whenever.
Should I have just let him have me even though I didn't want it? Should we still try to fix our relationship?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on Jun. 8, 2010 in Relationships
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