My daughter is friends with my nextdoor neighbors daughter. The girl is 13 and my DD is 8. The 13 yr old acts less mature than my daughter though. I think she may be a bit slow. I've never asked her mother. I do know that the girl seems a bit weird. Not that thats a bad thing usually. But she is constantly giving my DD presents. Kinda like buying friendship. And then I've heard some rumors of her stealing things. She was also sent away and my DH was told that the girl tried to commit suicide. I think the girl needs a friend. But I'm not sure she's the best influence on my DD. My DD always wants to play with her and I don't want to disapoint her but sometimes I think it would be best to separate them.Answer Question
Answer by older at 2:15 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
maybe you could supervise their playtime until you know the girl well enough to form your own opinion about her. maybe none of the rumers are true, and she's just a lonely little girl. i know it's easier said than done, but it's hard to tell an 8 yr old she can't play with the next door neighbor unless you have a really good reason.
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