So my So works days.... gets gome about 7 pm.... By then I have dinner done, my son ready for bed, etc(he is 1 btw).... I work nights, until about 4 am.... then get up with my son at 6 to 7 am.... but he wants to say I'm lazy because I haven't done the dishes in the last couple days.... but he can't do them?!?!?! He won't even clean his plate of, he just throws it in the sink .... we have no dishwasher btw... As I see it he gets 8 hrs of sleep a night so I think he should help me more, I'm not his mom, if he want's to be treated like a baby he can go to herAnswer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 6:49 PM on Jun. 8, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Bmat at 6:53 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by louise2 at 6:53 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Do you have the right to be mad...nope! You have the right to change the situation. You have the right to accept him for who he is and all his flaws, and you have the right to do only what you will. Do you do dishes to please him, or b/c they need to get cleaned? If you are not happy with the situation, then maybe you should evaluate why. I'll bet if you start to do the dishes w/ the satisfaction that it is YOUR accomplishment, you wont waste any more energy on negative emotion.
Answer by sugahmamma at 6:57 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:04 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by myheartx4 at 7:17 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 7:24 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by daughterofearth at 7:27 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by Erica0821 at 7:36 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Answer by xavierlogan09 at 7:54 PM on Jun. 8, 2010
Parenting is a partnership, as is a marriage and running a household. Why don't you let your hubby know and remind him of the vows that you both took.
Answer by Anonymous at 7:57 PM on Jun. 8, 2010