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Weird Guy

So I'm very happily married with one child. I have a sister who is seven years younger than me and still in high school. Her boyfriend is a few years older than her and they both have a mutual friend who is only a few years younger than me. So this guy has been flirting with me! Like really obviously flirting with me (which must be bad because I'm not one to notice these things). He's said a few things about me being "beautiful" and he knows I'm married and no I don't lead him on at ALL! I'm finally weirded out because today she said he wanted me to go out to eat with him for his birthday. She told him I was with my husband and son! Before this happened I had told him happy b-day on facebook just to be nice and he wrote back "I love you and thank you". Like I said-I don't flirt back at all-really! Should I be worried?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:07 PM on Jun. 8, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (8)
  • I would back away ASAP. I wold unfriend his butt and stay far away. He seem like the type of guy to mix signals and say stuff even if it's untrue.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:08 PM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • This sounds a little creepy. Maybe he's just one of those guys who just doesn't give up.

    Answer by lowencope at 11:16 PM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • Sounds like you have a fan. Stay away from him or have dh talk with him and set him straight

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:16 PM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • or maybe he's one of these guys that's a serial killer. you never know what your messing w/. I'd stop talking to him completely!

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:17 PM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • I'd cut off all communication with him. He's behavior isn't normal, if he had a simple crush on you he'd respect the fact that you are happily married and he wouldn't pursue you.

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:35 PM on Jun. 8, 2010

  • yah, not normal -tell him he is ,making you feel harrassed and uncomfortable, block him on facebook, get caller id and don't answer his calls . don't answer the door, and as a last resort call the cops and tell them he won't leave you alone

    Answer by myheartx4 at 3:59 AM on Jun. 9, 2010

  • Ignore him. He's either really weird or completely clueless (most likely both).

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 12:42 PM on Jun. 9, 2010

  • he said 'i love you'? what a nutjob. i'd ignore him completely and not go anywhere he is.

    Answer by rio_burb at 3:16 PM on Jun. 9, 2010

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