I dated my husband for a couple years, and then we got married and eventually had our daughter. I am 23. I am almost finished with college, and I am a SAHM. Why do people look at you like you are crazy because you are married and have a kid? And like because I am a young mom apparently I am supposed to be uneducated? WTH? I love my husband and my daughter and I am so thankful to have a supportive husband and a healthy baby. I just feel bad that two people getting married and raising a baby together anymore is not the norm. Kids need two parents. Moms need that support from their husband. I feel for the single mothers, I cannot even comprehend how hard it is to parent and support a household alone. It just makes me sad, alot of people we have known are divorced or never married and have kids. Not having that stability must be so hard.
I have 4 kids by the same man, who is my husband... so I'm not a single mother. Also I really was confused on this question, cause I couldn't tell which way she was going with it.Thankfully she was nice enough to clarify without taking offense to my question about hers.
soonmommy, I dont think anyone would gloat like that, but we may have it "good" as you out it, but people are snotty, and like with me, I have #5 on the way and people say Im nuts, it is rude, and maybe you are sensitive about being a singlr mom, like I am about having so many and she is about being a SAHM
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 5:51 PM on Jun. 10, 2010
ok, I am a bit confused on your question. Are you gloating to singles moms that you have it so good? OR are you trying to be sympatheticto how hard it is for them? Also, since your a young mom, do people just flat out ask you if your educated? cuz, I'm wondering how you would know that, unless they asked you or said something along those lines. From my experience I never got that from people, but then again I look like I could kick butt at any moment. I don't always have the nicest looks on me face. Mainly do to my thinking about things.
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