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what do i do..

i have been married for 5 years,been together 10,high school sweethearts.we have 2 beautiful kids .zac is 7 and zoies 4.and my dh wats to get a vasectomy ,hes said many times he doesnt want any more kids and i dont know wht to do.i would love to have another baby,i always wanted 3 and he was in agreeance with that but now in the last year hes just said no im done..our kids are a handful but no different than he next set of kids,our daughter starts school in aug..and he says why start all over again..and i cant help but be pissed off at him for being the way he hurt and mad and i dont know wht to do...

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:04 AM on Jun. 10, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Why don't you have a heart to heart about this situation with him. Maybe he just hasn't gotten thru his head that you really do want to start all over and that having one last baby would be a wonderful thing for the family. GL and I hope you are working on #3 by tonight.

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:12 AM on Jun. 10, 2010

  • do you have the money is that what hes worried about, if you are able to care for a 3rd baby then i think both of you should agree not just one! and if you can agree then you should be on birth control until you both agree... so its not permenant... i agree with Answered at 2:12 AM on Jun. 10, 2010 by: Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:15 AM on Jun. 10, 2010

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