My ex husband is very lax on picking up our son for his visits. As often as he shows up, he doesn't show up. Father's day is right around the corner, but usually if I don't remind him of what holiday's he has our son, he "forgets". Is it wrong of me, not to remind him that he can get him for Father's Day? I know he will miss the visit if I don't remind him, but I think he is a grown man and should be responsible enough to keep track of when he is supposed to have his child.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:46 AM on Jun. 11, 2010 in General Parenting
Answer by wildflowers25 at 11:33 AM on Jun. 11, 2010
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Answer by mmmegan38 at 9:53 AM on Jun. 11, 2010
Don't be petty and put your child in the middle of you crap like that. What if he wants to spend Father's Dad with his dad?
I didn't say it in the original question, because I did not expect remarks like this.Â The only dad my son has asked about spending Father's Day with is his STEPDAD!!
That being said, in the last year, his real Dad has "forgotten" at least 10 visits, and even "forgotten" to pick him up from school and left him standing there, until I could get there to pick him up.Â So, I really don't need a lecture about being "petty" with my ex.Â Our son continually gets hurt by him, I am just trying to figure out how to prevent it!Â And yeah, I am currently taking his Dad back to court to get his visits reduced, since he can't remember them anyways!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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