i lost my virginity to my husband 6 1/2 yrs ago...we have been married 3 yrs and have 2 kids...he just came out in the open with a story from when he was 14. he was crying big time and begging me not to leave that me and our kids are everything to him...but he may have had sex but doesnt think so...he was asleep on his bed and a girl that was staying a night with his sister was there..he woke up when she jumped on top of him(yea peter is out hes in his boxers) and then a light came on in the house and she ran..he dont think he had sex he wasnt even hard...but he has kept this from me for 6 1/2 yrs...im just so hurt...i love him so much..and i gave him my virginity...im just so hurt he lied...or might have lied.. how do i hget over this?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:08 PM on Jun. 11, 2010 in Relationships
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Answer by Anonymous at 12:15 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
I cannot believe you are upset over this.....wow!
He was 14? And this still bothers you? WHY? Because you thought he was a virgin & perhaps he was not? Why does it matter? even if he did have sex before you, how would this change your love for him? You guys must be very young, because this really is nothing to be upset over. REMEMBER THIS;
CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES WISELY!
You will come across real things to be upset over during your marriage, let this one go.
Answer by samurai_chica at 12:16 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
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