We've been together 7 years, married 5. I gave up friends/family to ease his paranoia. He finally decided to trust me after I told him I wanted to leave. For four years he pushed and guilted me into sex almost every night, accusing me of ****ing every other man I knew b/c I didn't want to sleep with him(I've never cheated on him). He wouldn't let me sleep till he got it. In my eyes he only cared about video games and sex. When he was unemployed he didn't even devote enough time to school to make passing grades. The house was always a disaster, and he'd blow money on things we couldn't afford/didn't need. I was the only one taking care of our daughter, and I would constantly try to talk to him about what I needed from him for us to work. He'd usually find some way to blame me or invalidate my feelings. I didn't trust him to keep promises.
I left him on Sunday. He thinks we'll get back together, but I've never been so at peace.
Asked by Anonymous at 1:26 PM on Jun. 11, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Jademom07 at 1:27 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
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Answer by heratyc at 1:37 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Yes and should have done it sooner but better late than never.
Answer by admckenzie at 1:44 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
I am happy to hear you feel at peace now!!!!!!!!!!
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Answer by TaiM at 2:31 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
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