dh went with his brother right after work, and has been gone all night and i called him at 9pm and he told me he was bringing his brother down to drink beer and i told him that our son was asleep and said whatever and i hung up well i just found out that he went to his friends house that i told him he was hitting on me and that hes out there drinking he has to work tommorow
i have no money no job no where to go what do i do this isnt the first time he hasnt come home
Asked by Anonymous at 10:47 PM on Jun. 11, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 10:53 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Answer by Blabbermouth at 10:54 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 10:58 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
First off you need to calm down! He works hard and provides for you so you dont have to work! So what if he goes out with his friends! You should consider yourself lucky! He deserves a break! You are completely over reacting! I know it can be upsetting but dont act like your gonna leave him over something so stupid! And dont bring your child into your problems! You can not expect him to never go out, you need to compromise! Come to an agreement on what is acceptable for him to go out and when he should be home! You need a night out too! Make him stay home and go out with the girls!
Answer by Anonymous at 11:15 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Well thats a completely different situation and you first stated... and yes you still need to calm down you asked for the advice! Sounds like you are unhappy and if that is the case and he isnt doing you right then leave! If he isnt changing then maybe do a trial separation to show him you are not going to put up with it! Or counseling...
Answer by Anonymous at 11:25 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 11:27 PM on Jun. 11, 2010
Answer by countrygirl06 at 12:52 AM on Jun. 12, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 1:46 AM on Jun. 12, 2010