We have children together, and I decided to move out.
He complains about everything and is always negative. If I do something, he says you should have talked to me about it. Hello, he never talks to me about anything. So for the summer he is going away for 3 weeks which is good for him, but this is the 3rd time he is getting away. What about me??? I am so tired of him being selfish and I am in therapy trying to hold on to something that will never be. Does that make me selfish?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:25 AM on Jun. 14, 2010 in Relationships
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I would sit down and tell him this is a relationship and we are both responsible for how it fell off the tracks. After I would go on my own three week trip and I would spend sometime while he is away writing down what you want and where you see you and your kids five years from now. Therapy only works when you both want it I would use that therapy to figure out what you want direct it towards your future and how you can decide what you want. This three weeks should be about you and how your going to either save the relationship or move on to new grounds. Decide for you and your kids. GL Momma
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