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Anal sex (tmi)

So we are going to try again... i decided to give him a good father' s day present this year LOL any tips.. i have been using my dildo and think it will work this time :) Just wanting some tips. Should i do it in the same position i have been playing with myself or what is the "easiest" position.


Asked by Anonymous at 5:57 AM on Jun. 15, 2010 in Relationships

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  • i think doggy style works best.

    when entering, have him put a little pressure at the opening & to hold it there, when you feel he can push in a little more tell him. Have him go in little by little & every time he pushes it in a little further, have him stop until it feels to you that the skin has stretched. Your bum will actually stretch A LOT, but it takes much longer for it to stretch out than it does a vagina. If it didn't take long to stretch out those anal walls, we'd have poop falling out of our butts all day...LOL. So, as long as he enters you super slow & holds it for a minute or two before pushing in further, it should not hurt. This is a special technique i learned from a sex guru (i never had sex with him use lots of lube & make sure you massage the area a lot before he goes there. Also, if you hold a vibrator to your clit while he is in there, you will cum your brains out.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 9:04 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • lots of lubricant and almost push OUT as he enters.

    Answer by sati769leigh at 6:55 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • Tell him to use his thumb to massage the anal entry and relax those sphincter muscles. Spooning position seems to work well

    Answer by admckenzie at 7:44 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • Lots of lube. doggy or missionary. relax. push out as he enters. and have him massage beforehand. go slowly. All that.

    Answer by BradenIsMySon at 7:47 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • I asked a similar question just now! We've tried all that's been said and it's still akward to say the least.

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:52 AM on Jun. 15, 2010