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Do you let your dh know if the sex sucked?

I do. Usually its good but i will let him know if the time before was better.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:48 AM on Jun. 15, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (19)
  • No
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:49 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • I kind of think sex is like pizza or ice cream. Even if it's not great, it's still pretty good and I'll be back for more.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:49 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • What a wonderful way to build a man's self-esteem and to show respect for him! Is he kind enough to return the favor for you?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:50 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • No, there is no need to because it never sucks. Its not always "astounding",lol. But it never has sucked enough to a point where I would feel the need to tell him about it.
    kimberlyinberea

    Answer by kimberlyinberea at 10:51 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • No... I would be more involved in getting what I want from him. Sometimes they just dont know because we just dont tell them the way they need to hear it.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:51 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • haven't ever had to tell him it sucked like the anon 49 said it is still pretty good even if it isn't great. I eill tell him at times that, that is the best sex I ever had, but I am not saying the other ones sucked.
    mommy5409

    Answer by mommy5409 at 10:52 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • hell no...my dh wont give it to me for a couple weeks if i tellhim. and plus i dont want him to get all butt hurt. lol so i just tell him its good
    Lovin_mybaby5

    Answer by Lovin_mybaby5 at 10:53 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • It never really sucks, sex always feels good, just.. whats the word.. I don't know unsatisfying when I don't get to have the big O. But we do talk about it, I tell him what I don't like, what he did wrong, what he did right etc.
    mrsbean08

    Answer by mrsbean08 at 10:56 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • I kind of think sex is like pizza or ice cream. Even if it's not great, it's still pretty good and I'll be back for more.

    haha..i agree i do tell my dh though "ahh, thats better than last time"..i say that everytime though. Sometimes i will say "why did you stop..i coulda came like 50 times!"
    shay1130

    Answer by shay1130 at 11:02 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

  • I have had to let him know that things were getting predictable and routine. (I don't like that) I told him he was slacking! He's a control freak so I told him it's his responsibility to fix it! He did and all is well now
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 11:03 AM on Jun. 15, 2010

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