I know I have been driving my husband crazy over this crap but I can't help it! I feel like a whale and then I see his phone is full of stupid texts that have naked girls and nasty things like that on there... I get sooooo mad over it, he kept deleting them b4 I could see them but then I just got mad because i would think he was hiding something.. He saved them and I looked at them and it was worse for me..lol i got soo upset and he said that's why I delete them so you wont worry about this crap.. he said.. " i don't send them to myself, I look at them then delete them, there is nothing to them I don't care anything about them"... I tell hinm why I feel so bad then he tries to make me feel better telling me I am pretty and sexy and I have our baby growing in me that's all that matters.....
I am not the jealous type but for some reason right know that's all I am..lol I know better but I can't help it....
What can I do? 33w
Asked by Anonymous at 10:24 AM on Jun. 16, 2010 in Pregnancy
No, it's not stupid to feel jealous. Your husband is being inconsiderate to your feelings. Regardless of how he feels about these pictures, he needs to recognize that it is upsetting you. Pregnant women have a lot going on with them, emotions run high and these kinds of things only make matters worse. Let him know exactly what you are feeling and tell him that it is not acceptable to continue to act in this way when he has been made aware of how it makes you feel.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:43 AM on Jun. 16, 2010
Answer by Jademom07 at 10:43 AM on Jun. 16, 2010
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Answer by 1st_time_mom23 at 11:12 AM on Jun. 16, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 2:04 PM on Jun. 16, 2010
Just understand what you are going through. Its OK to have those feelings but just remember the facts of the situation and try to keep your emotions/actions under control. Men look at other women... ALL men look at other women. If you trust him, trust him. Its good that you talk to him too. Lots of problems occur simply by the lack of communication =0) Good Luck.
Answer by SupriseImPregy at 5:29 PM on Jun. 16, 2010