We've been out of the "honeymoon" stage for like three years, but have had pretty healthy sex life since then, usually two to five times a week. But he works a weird schedule, and I always work the same hours and have to get up early. So for the last month or so we have only done it about three times the entire month. I know a lot of it is that he stays up at night and we work opposite shifts a lot, and he is tired when I'm awake and I'm awake when he is tired.
But I can't help but think there is more to it than just that. Am I doing something wrong? Is he just not attracted to me any more? Is there someone else? etc. I know I am probably just reading more into it than there is, and I don't actually think he is cheating on me, I just can't shake the feeling that there is more to it than he is just tired.
I've tried talking to him about it and he just tells me he is tired, or he doesn't "feel like it right now."
Asked by Anonymous at 11:45 AM on Jun. 16, 2010 in Relationships
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