My boyfriend and I just had our son May 19th. We have been together for almost 3 years. I got a little tipsy last night and looked through his cell phone. I found messages between him and his ex inviting her over to see the baby while I am at work. I also found messages between him and another girl talking about sexy pictures and she had asked him to leave me with the baby so he could come over to her house. He had deleted the messages but they went to a deleted folder and hadn't been expunged yet. He also put a password on his laptop so I couldn't access it. So, what would you ladies do in this situation? I haven't said anything to him yet, just trying to make a game plan and calm down first.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:13 AM on Jun. 17, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 11:24 AM on Jun. 17, 2010
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Answer by June_Mama09 at 11:21 AM on Jun. 17, 2010
I would call in sick, or take a day off & try to catch him red handed. AND, i would forward all those messages to my email or cell phone to have as evidence, just in case a divorce is on its way. I might call the ex & the other lady, or i might show up at their work & make a big scene & embarras the piss out of them for messing with a married man who just had a baby with his wife. I would probably break something special of DH's & throw all his crap out onto the lawn so that the whole neighborhood knows he is an asshole. I'm usually a very peaceful person, but when i have been deceived by the LAST person i would ever expect to deceive me, i can turn very ugly. I have a SUPER long fuse, but if it burns up....watch out! It would be WW3 if i was in your shoes.
Answer by samurai_chica at 11:21 AM on Jun. 17, 2010
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