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Did you get married before or after you had children?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:11 PM on Jun. 17, 2010 in Just for Fun

Answers (61)
  • technically before,but i was 5 mo pregnant

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 5:12 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • We got married before having children. I had just turned 32, and my husband was 38 when we each married for the first time. Had our children when I was 33 and 35. :o)

    Answer by LoriKeet at 5:13 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • Before (each time) I was married for 8 years before I had my first child with my ex, and 3 years before I had my first child with my current DH.

    Answer by Scuba at 5:15 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • Still not married, but still together. We have been together for 7 1/2 years with a 2 yo. I didn't want our child to be the reason for a wedding.

    Answer by coala at 5:19 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • Four years before.

    Answer by GinNTonic at 5:21 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • AFTER.,...wasnt the plan..but..o well

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:23 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • I got married and 5 years later had my first child. I wouldn't have put my parents through that embarrassment. Say what you want. They would have been embarrassed to have their only daughter have the conception before the reception. And, I care what they think.


    Answer by jesse123456 at 5:25 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • Married 4 years before children.


    Answer by beeky at 5:25 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • SO and I have a 15 month old and are not married. I do want to get married to him someday and I plan on spending forever with him. But I don't think that people should have to be married to have children together. We live together and do everything together so it is just like we are married without the papers. I do want to get married someday but I want it to be perfect :)

    Answer by BlainesMommy09 at 5:27 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

  • After. But the wedding was planned way before I ever got pregnant, and I wasn't about to move the date up just because I was pregnant. Plus, there was no way my dress would have fit while I was pregnant with twins! I got pregnant a month after I bought the dress! lol.

    Answer by fallnangel93 at 5:28 PM on Jun. 17, 2010

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