Re recent clsd coercion post: The radio station I listen to every morning runs an ad for a company called Ash*ey M*d**son advertising they are a dating service for people who want to have a "discreet affair". The commerical runs constantly and I think of how many men sit in their cars & probably think about calling, how strong the allure must be to some to cheat without being caught. How basically many men will argue that the sexual urge is one of the strongest and monogamy is actually against that male biological instinct. How a high # of men cheat already without being coerced.
Placing for Adoption is extremely rare; cheating is not, Placing is against bio instinct; cheating is not. Placing is permanent/serious; cheating is less so.
Yet I know few wives would forgive their husbands if they say they cheated because they heard an ad on the radio.
Dont you have to have an idea in your head before you are "coerced".
Answer by Iamgr8teful at 10:22 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by SandalsKitty at 6:38 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by frogdawg at 7:35 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by doodlebopfan at 8:38 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by doodlebopfan at 8:46 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by Anonymous at 8:54 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by SandalsKitty at 8:55 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by miriamz at 9:03 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
She's told that it's normal to experience grief, but not the depths of it. She may be told that in an OA, that quarterly pics & annual visits is "normal" & what most people agree to, but not know that she has the right to ask for much more & get it in writing. She MAY be told OA agreements aren't legally binding, but that most AP's, especially the ones she chose, will follow thru. Even if the child grows up loved, happy, and content in his adoption, she has nothing in her life to prepare her for what is to come
Lets try to stay on one topic... I get all that.....and while I dont believe a lot of that is going on everywhere today. (I have a domestic adopton, I saw first hand what our child's bmom was told). My question/point is that coercion exists in all parts of life.
Answer by SandalsKitty at 9:03 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
Answer by miriamz at 9:08 AM on Jun. 18, 2010
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