So been married for 3 years (together 24-7 for 5) He wanted kids right off the bat. I wanted to wait (at the time I was 22 he was 29) For the last year our relationship has been very rocky. It's miserable and I don't really see the light at the end of the tunnel yet. I want kids sooner versus later, but I'm repsonsible enough to not be attempting pregnancy during this melee. However, I'm not a baby making machine and have fertility issues to the nth degree. I don't want a divorce (at least not today...maybe yesterday and tomorrow) but at the same time I don't want to be trying to have my first kid at 30 (not that I can't be patient, but there is a point) So how long do you try to resolve things and make it work or at least do you wait until everything is completely resolved before you throw a kid in the mix? FYI I can take brutal honesty so I'm not going to cry over anything.
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