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If DH/SO cheated on you, would it give you the right to cheat back?

Now I know it's wrong and immature to get back at someone for something they did to you, but in all honesty, would it give you the right, without the person who cheated on you complain about it, to cheat on them too! I see people who are cheated on, cheat right back to get back at their SO. Even though I think it's wrong, at the same time I feel like the person who did it first had it coming. Thoughts?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 11:24 PM on Jun. 18, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (27)
  • don't cheat back...just leave
    aliishott2

    Answer by aliishott2 at 11:25 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • Well ok, but it sounds like you're just looking for an excuse to sleep around and rationalizing your behavior. You can do that if you want but it's not going to make you feel better... it's going to make you feel worse.
    Blabbermouth

    Answer by Blabbermouth at 11:26 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • What I'm asking is, should the person who did it first have any room to talk or get mad about it?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:27 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • It's more a hypothetical question, nothing pertaining to my life! OP
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:28 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • i still think it's better to just leave...the whole getting back just seems childish
    aliishott2

    Answer by aliishott2 at 11:29 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • yup i would do it so they could catch me then i would leave them....im bitch like that..lol
    DeeMarie87

    Answer by DeeMarie87 at 11:30 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • No. Two wrongs dont make a right.
    You dont have a right to hurt someone just because they hurt you...all that does is hurt you more in the end and its foolish.
    Amaranth361

    Answer by Amaranth361 at 11:31 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • No because then you become the hypocrite. It makes you just as low as the person that did it to you.
    CAGirl4

    Answer by CAGirl4 at 11:35 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • I think its fair....
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:39 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • hell no. this is not high school.
    jennifer588

    Answer by jennifer588 at 11:43 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

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