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receiving messages inviting me to other groups, do you?

My profile is set to private. All my info is hidden. I occasionally get these message invites to join someones group, is that a blind request they send over the whole cm site? I work with victims of dv, so Im really careful about my profile and stuff. Just wondering,,thanks ladies

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:47 PM on Jun. 18, 2010 in About CafeMom

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  • If you reply to a post, someone in the group can click your picture (avatar) and send you a message. There are people that send group invites to anyone and everone - they "pick & choose", so to speak, it doesn't go to everyone. Sucks huh?

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:49 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • i don't send request and i have never accepted any because i have often thought the same as you. I have only accepted friend request after talking to someone or seeing some comments that i liked from them I've only requested two people be my friend because i had nice convo with them.

    Answer by shay1130 at 11:51 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • They just send out invites to send them...hoping to rally supporters for thier groups. Just ignore, don't reply...

    Answer by Anonymous at 11:52 PM on Jun. 18, 2010

  • I own a group or 2. I would only send some one an invite through PM if I thought it would be a group they would WANT to join. Like if I noticed someone has a preemie, I would send them a message inviting them to the preemie group I used to own. But I never just sent random people requests..

    Answer by nsrush83 at 12:11 AM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • really...someone must've thought i was a bitch a time or two because i've been invited to a couple of bitch groups.

    Answer by shay1130 at 12:22 AM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • LOL-shay. Those are the ones that invite EVERYBODY...I get at least one a month!

    Answer by nsrush83 at 12:35 AM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • Yeah, I get something about dollies or deranged innocence or something once or twice a month.

    Answer by lovinangels at 10:24 AM on Jun. 19, 2010

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