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Do you let your man check out other women or do you freak out when they do?

I mean I definitely notice when there's an attractive man in the room and I know my husband notices when there is an attractive female. We try don't let it bother one another because it's only natural to be drawn to something attractive, as long as all we're doing is looking it's fine. Anything beyond looking is a no no.

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:50 PM on Jun. 19, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I don't know - I have never noticed him doing it, ever. I'm sure he notices, but he has never really "looked" at another woman when he has been with me.

    Answer by missanc at 5:51 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • I tease him about it if he stares too long. But I don't get angry. He loves me and chose me!

    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 5:51 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • He is an adult I am not his mother if he wants to look he does. I just laugh its funny.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 5:52 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • Hell I check out women with him sometimes. I think I have much better taste in women than he does though. (Aside from myself of course.)

    Answer by GinNTonic at 5:54 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • I'm fine with it... Why should it bother me?

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 5:54 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • Gin- I'm with you on this one... I have MUCH better taste in women than my DH does! BY FAR!!

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 5:55 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • Well he is going to notice whether I like it or not. Lol. But no i don't get med unless he is enjoying them too long :)


    Answer by Brandi300 at 5:55 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • he doesnt. no joke. if he sees a woman wearing revealing clothes he makes fun of her. lol

    Answer by jennifer588 at 5:58 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • haha. we check out woman together.

    Answer by outstandingLove at 5:58 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

  • "Do I Let My Husband?"
    My husband is an adult. If he is going to look then he is going to look. It isn't my say either way.
    My husband and I point out to each other attractive women. He'll say "Quit checking out her butt." If he sees an attractive women. That's the que that he is eyeing someone whether I saw her there or not. If I see someone who is attractive I'll point her out and ask what he thinks. We don't need to hide it from one another that we find other people attractive.

    My mom always said "I can browse the merchendise, but that doesn't mean I'm buying."


    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 7:04 PM on Jun. 19, 2010

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