My dh cheated on 6 times until October.... I know it wasn't right but I cheated on him in Fed-April, don't really know or want to think about it but I told him and he's FURIOUS!!! But my thing is 6 times I went through what he's feeling. Six times I dealt with everything, the anger, being completely disgusted, hatred... all of it! Now I know it wasn't ok and never will be! I never should have allowed myself to even be near that situation but it happened and I can't avoid it. I will NEVER do this again and learned how to stop very quickly!!! But he's at a girls house now mad at me saying he doesn't want to harm me like he feels like doing.... It's pissing me off because 6 TIMES I went through this yet neither of us left the house, I just had to deal with it!!!! Why can't he get over it like I had to?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 10:24 PM on Jun. 19, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Jademom07 at 10:27 PM on Jun. 19, 2010
Answer by SleepingBeautee at 10:28 PM on Jun. 19, 2010
i think you two need to divorce. Of course he's not going to get over it like you did. He is going to use it against you so he can now cheat without any guilt. oh and he will continue to cheat on you. I really do think divorce is the best option. Besides he has NO right to be mad at you, since he already cheated on you first. What is it that he wants? He wants to be able to cheat on you and not have you feel so bad about yourself and do the same? That is a huge double standard. I wouldn't go for this shit anymore.
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 10:28 PM on Jun. 19, 2010
This is way better then anything I said. Do what sleeping beautee suggested.
How about you split up? It seems neither of you is mature enough for playing house. Your kids deserve to see parents that love each other and don't hurt one another out of spite
Answer by soonmommyof3 at 10:29 PM on Jun. 19, 2010
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