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what would u think about your dh cheating just maybe??

a little info on us.. i dont trust him no way no i love him yes cause im crazy ..well he has a major porn problem he lies about it he misses work cause he stayed up till 5 am watching it.he also told me he wasnt attracted to a certain race of women and i see in his google he was looking at that type of woman..well heres the big problem last night i used his cell to set the alarm and he had another alarm that said bitch 4:30 am.. i couldnt find out when its for or i questioned him..he says i dont even know how to use the phone the kids did it or it got there when he pushed the wrong button now we all know u have to type in why you are setting the alarm and choose a time.than he got mad threw the phone up against the fireplace and its broken now so he walks out our bedroom and slams the door..what would u think of if u found this in your dhs phone..i already thought something was going before this .any advice


Asked by Anonymous at 7:53 AM on Jun. 21, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:53 AM on Jun. 21, 2010

  • I think a real man WORKS to provide for his family. Taking off because he whacked off too much the night before is unacceptable and the title of the alarm on his phone is ridiculous. It sounds like he has a porn issue and a scary temper to boot. You're probably right.


    Answer by -xoxo- at 8:08 AM on Jun. 21, 2010

  • porn addict? yes, cheating on you? probably not, he doesnt even have the energy to go to work, he wont have the energy to sleep with someone else. my so also was bad about watching porn, he loved BRAZILIAN owmen bc of their big butts! but after i told him it was affecting out sex life and that i didnt like him doing it all the time, then he calmed down a lot. about the alarm thing, i have no clue, but i wouldnt believe that he doesnt know how to work his own phone!

    Answer by Anonymous at 8:22 AM on Jun. 21, 2010

  • Well, way to break the phone and destroy any other potential evidence. It's a given he's addicted to porn. It's likely he is up to no good if he has a wake up call titled 'Bitch' (wtf?) also. But now you won't know for sure.

    Save the cookies you find in the computer and whether you love him or not, get the hell away from him. This is NOT a good environment for you and your kids at all. Unless he gets some good counseling, it won't change either. Best wishes.

    Answer by rio_burb at 1:33 PM on Jun. 21, 2010

  • He may not have cheated yet, but it sounds like he wants to.He needs to man up, go to work and provide for his family.

    Answer by evelynwest at 2:45 PM on Jun. 21, 2010